A few months ago my friend was in the midst of website redesign. Her son, who had just left a web design firm to start his own company, was doing the work for her. Several times she suggested that I might want to talk to him.

Believe me, it was the last thing in the world I wanted to do! After just spending tons of money and time on my own site, I wasn't one bit interested in talking to Andrew. What I had was “good enough” for a while. Sure there were changes I wanted to make, but they could wait. Besides, doing business with your friend's kid is dangerous - what if he did a lousy job?

With a gracious smile, I politely declined her offer of assistance. “Maybe in a year or so,” I said in my nicest, most discouraging manner. She finally dropped the subject. Needless to say, I was relieved.

Imagine my surprise when I received an e-mail from Andrew a few weeks later. I opened the message and began reading. Sure enough it started, “My mom mentioned ...”

“Poor fellow,” I thought, “He must really be desperate for business.”

“I took a look at your web site,” the letter continued, “and I have some ideas ...”

I was surprised - selling ideas is a high level sales skill. Andrew was new at this, but he had checked out my site and spent time thinking about my business. I was downright curious too. What ideas did Andrew have for me? I had to learn more. I read on. He explained them, but being a non-tech savvy buyer, I was somewhat confused. He started to lose me; I quickly reject any sales pitch cloaked in techie terminology.

Then, what I read next blew me away!

Andrew told me he had copied several pages from my website onto his. He had actually made the recommended changes so I could ‘see' and ‘test' what he was talking about. He gave me the URL link.

Of course, I had no choice. I had to see what he'd done to my website. I clicked through and tried the new software. It was easy. It did what I needed it to do. I saw other definite improvements too.

I was really impressed, but not ready to do anything. Nice as the changes were, I didn't need them; I could live without them. But Andrew didn't give up. He sent an e-mail suggesting we talk about the ideas early the next week.

I stalled. “I'm busy all week,” I e-mailed back. “Perhaps the following week.”

He wrote back suggesting that setting up a specific time would make it easier for both of us. He gave me some options when he was available. We went back and forth like this for a few weeks, but guess what the end result was ...

That's right. I'm working with Andrew now. I switched my web hosting company to one he suggested; he handled all the details. He's doing a couple projects for me and I know he'll do more in the future. And, I've already recommended him to several people.

Lessons Learned

1. Research clients prior to any contact. Be sure to let them know the homework you did. Feel free to say or write, “In preparing for our meeting, I _____.” They'll be impressed; they don't hear this often.
   
   
2. Prospective buyers can't resist ideas. They have to learn more. To make yourself irresistible and invaluable to clients, become an idea generator.
   
   
3. Offer your knowledge and expertise freely. Invest time on a project before you're hired. It sets you apart from the crowd. Plus prospects can sample what it's like working with you, making a decision much easier.